Child sex education: "sex" how to say it?
Child sex education: "sex" how to say it?
Expert Interview: Guangzhou mangrove psychological director of the Center's chief psychologist Mrs red Zhongshan Hospital, deputy director of pediatric physician pediatric endocrine specialist Shun-Ye Recently, the media coverage of the "Beijing's first sex education pilot primary school teaching, " "growth pace, " because the scale boldly brought to the cusp of public opinion. Debate focused on "I come from" a lesson, which joined the accused of "explicit" and the concept of sexual intercourse, and the illustrations and text matching. Some parents oppose said: "For the children, is not that yellow cartoon it?" But there are so many parents that clearly and simply on sex education. Although the Beijing Municipal Education Commission has denied this, this is only the initial research results are not distributed to students and parents of the materials. However, sex education on the topic of children and young people, the community had lead to enthusiastic discussion: children sex education "measure" what? How clever we are the children of the implementation of sex education? Kindergarten teacher's confusion: ye so small on the "sensible" it? Intermediate Zhu Haizhu a kindergarten teacher, said with emotion to the Express reporter, and now more and more young adults, young children began to sense a little girl because of fear of "flash", life and death do not want to go to the toilet together, and the little boy; always the "husband", "wife" lip, young age, already know how to "romance." Zhu class teachers a 4-year-old boy even asked her: "Teacher, I am dancing about Linda, but she does not want, said she likes the class, another boys, I'm not interested." He was still very nervous to ask, how can make the girls like him? In addition to its gender awareness, but many children also show some hazy adult behavior and consciousness. Some little boy, "pursuit" means quite a clever girl, usually gallant, such as helped the girls wipe, for her hands to grab toys from others, especially the girls encounter holiday birthday, the boy will get chocolate and roses Once seized the chance, they will pull the hands, play kiss ... ... Leisure time, kindergarten teachers often discussed topic is that today's children ye are so small on the "sensible" it? How to guide them? Parents VS Children: "sex" how to say it? Analysis of baby is born from the desire Zhongshan Hospital, deputy director of pediatric physician pediatric endocrine specialist Shun-Ye told the Express reporter, before age 18, with the hormonal changes the body and stimulate the child's psychological development can be divided into four periods: 0-1 year-old infant Baby likes to eat pacifier, sucking, hand grasp the nipple of another mother, or seize his little brother, not his mouth, the mother's breast feeding should be ... as long as things get put into their mouths and inside, he would met. This time the baby to stimulate the oral mucosa, mainly to stimulate touch, this feeling is a sexual excitement. If this stage has not been enough to appease the future will be more adverse way, such as masturbation met. Period of 2-5 years old children Sex and the focus began to stay in the genitals, the girls like clamping their genitals, the boys like to play penis to gain sexual pleasure. However, these acts often by adults scold. In fact, usually you do not interfere with him, he will not be excessive. The first phase of rebellious child is 2-4 years old, should take the opportunity to capitalize on the trend, and he discussed this matter in a place where good and bad, and not to curse or scold his little rogue attitude. If the child does not take the initiative to ask about issues, do not intervene too much sex education too early, so instead of bad. Lower primary, latent desire 6-10 years of lower primary students, a variety of sports, games, learning activities, distracted, then psychological sexual desires are to lie. This stage was originally normal depression, if it was intended to bring sex and children, too much too soon will arouse their sexual desires. This period, many children do not focus on the opposite sex, but very concerned about their own kind, then parents should clearly tell the TA, TA is a boy or a girl? What do girls features and benefits; What are the characteristics and boys in the community to bear on the role. Without proper guidance, and gender roles easily occur at this stage of morbid turn. After puberty As of early adolescence, to the upper grades of high-grade primary school stage, due to sex hormones influence female breast development, menstruation, male testis increased ejaculation. At this point parents should take the initiative to adolescent psychological and physiological health knowledge to them. Clear what kind of behavior may become pregnant, about contraception, now this may cause great harm or even of their own infertility as a consequence. If you do not say, they will find their own way to explore, such as the Internet, sex game, try to ... ... with the opposite sex may therefore go astray. Psychologist sex education to be "responsive" Sex education is not "avant garde" Sex education for children today is "international practice." Under British law, children must be 5 years old to begin a mandatory sex education. Sweden from 1942 children over the age of 7 sex education. Compared with the traditional East also continue to strengthen the education of children. In 2004, Singapore on the development of a system of sex education programs, and designed a multi-media education materials. China sex education lags behind the relatively conservative, the face of modern society, the natural wealth of information and the curiosity of children, appeared to be inadequate. Survey shows that 80% of the parents not the children's gender aspects of education, the parents for child sexual curiosity and doubt often "avoided", "secrecy." "You can then open a little bit, the children than we think of knowledge of the higher level of awareness and acceptance, we have a sex education class before, but not the system, most of them only stay in the reproductive stage of education in the media and entertainment industry becomes more sophisticated today, the children access to the content of the images, pictures, information greatly increased risk, if not timely and correct education, children will inevitably generate curiosity. Some children even under the guidance of the negative examples, the occurrence of adverse behavior so as to cause sex crimes. "Guangzhou mangrove psychological director of the Center's chief psychologist Mrs Hung said. In particular, the red has been a 17-year-old admissions gay, in his fourth-grade reading, when male and female intimacy out of curiosity, and once he slipped into the video halls and small partners to watch pornographic movies, was just playing a gay movie. Male mating male movie camera so that they feel very fresh, but do not dare ask the family, then they decided according to the action on video and play together, the first time in life produce sexual pleasure. This special experience, so that he mistakenly thought he is from same-sex interest and develop into homosexuals. Less easy to induce sexual arousal words "" Pace of growth, "which some sections of the language, a bit too far, are prone to sexual arousal words on words, which will give a lot of imagination, or even misleading. Children and adolescents in sex education, it is recommended to use more neutral terms, the objective Tell them some knowledge. "Mrs Hung said, parents should always observe the child's behavior, today's kids than before, gender awareness, understanding of the role of consciousness to be earlier. 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